Interspersed with poetry,
singing, dancing, debate and energy, The Southern African Young Women’s
Festival 2012 is definitely burning and
I am definitely on Fire!
My flame sparked on day 1 when historical
perspectives of feminism were shared and feminist theories were explored leading
us to the realization and appreciation that despite the fact that African
women’s struggles and experiences of oppression are different, the quest for
recognition of their autonomy and freedom including identity, bodily integrity,
and autonomy is universal and this can be seen in women’s continued active
resistance to various forms of injustice, tyranny, oppression, inequality and
discrimination.
Then my flame was ignited by the
call for young feminist women like myself to begin practicing feminism in their
daily lives…..as in to walk the talk…and this particularly made me aware that
often times I have failed to challenge and question oppressive forces that
place me under pressure, limit my possibilities, make me unhappy and take away
my freedom.
It has dawned upon me that by not
questioning and confronting these forces and systems, I am actually entertaining
patriarchy and playing a role in upholding the repressive and cruel ideals of
the institution of patriarchy. And so I
choose not to conform to patriarchal rules and oppressions in my daily life,
coz guess what, this girl is on FIRE!
Ooooooh and Pajama Party night
was an uncontrollable blaze. Blazing with ideas around the significance of
female sexuality and the political tinge of African Women’s sexualities, the
pajama party was not only fun but extremely thought provoking for me! All dressed in cute pajama garments and rocked
by the different meanings of sexual pleasure, no one present at pajama night
can possibly ignore that woman’s experiences of sexual pleasure vary, and that
the experiences of this pleasures take assorted forms.
And then my fire further ignited
into an inferno during a thrilling and intriguing debate around the motion:
‘Culture has placed women’s rights in jeopardy.” And it puzzled me to hear some
of my feminist sisters arguing that culture does not jeopardize women’s rights
saying that culture is a way of life that promotes peace and well being for
all, and that culture has often been manipulated by political players and other
forces to inhibit the rights of woman so as to benefit them. But I am
definitely not going to give a blind eye to the significant role that culture
plays in proliferating the violations of women’s human rights.
So the fire got fierce and fiery during
Cow Girl Night on day 2 ! With all sisters claded into cowgirl outfits and
celebrating and dancing to our feminism and “sisterly-hoodness” (yes this word
exists in my dictionary ;)! And an intergenerational dialogue in this space got
me realizing that women in the older women’s movement have a significant role
in cultivating young women’s leadership skills and strengthening their meaningful
input and participation in developmental processes, policy formulation,
analysis and decision making!
It came to my realization that
there is some magic in mentoring of young women through inter-generational
dialogues, sharing of information, skills, strategies and experiences and that
our ‘older’ feminist sisters and mothers are there for us but we need to
utilize our opportunities with them wisely and work hand in hand with them in
finding spaces within the women’s movement.
And so today we continue with the
festival and I cant wait to see how fierce this fire is going get!
Sister Sister! ……I salute you all
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